Sometimes I call Malia Little Miss. After I did so today, she turned around and addressed her response to Big Miss.
It made me giggle.
Thursday, March 31, 2016
A Hair Affair
Malia and I had haircuts yesterday. Last time Malia had a haircut, the hair on the sides of her head was still only shoulder length even though the back was getting pretty long. So we evened out the ends and shaped her hair in a U so we wouldn’t need to cut it super short. Since then, her hair has grown long enough that we could just cut it all the same length. I think it looks nicer now that everything is all evened out. And because there is less length, her nature waves are a bit more prominent. It also makes her look older which I’m not sure I’m ready for. But mommy desires aside, time marches on.
Do you remember my rant about hair elastics last year? The subject came us as we were getting the locks clipped and our wonderful hairdresser suggested we check out Sally Beauty Supply. We did so as soon as we were finished and it looks like I've found some elastics that won't make me Mormon swear every time I comb Malia's hair. They didn't have any of the normal big box brands (thankfully) and it looks like I'll be a repeat customer.
Can you tell whose hair is whose? It's kind of a no brainer. ;-)
Do you remember my rant about hair elastics last year? The subject came us as we were getting the locks clipped and our wonderful hairdresser suggested we check out Sally Beauty Supply. We did so as soon as we were finished and it looks like I've found some elastics that won't make me Mormon swear every time I comb Malia's hair. They didn't have any of the normal big box brands (thankfully) and it looks like I'll be a repeat customer.
Sunday, March 27, 2016
Hippety Hoppety
Easter kind of snuck up on me this year. It is super early and March has been pretty crazy so I just didn’t think ahead like I usually do. As a result, we skipped some of the things we normally do. We didn’t do our FHE on Easter. We didn’t make resurrection rolls. We didn’t even color eggs. Matthew and Malia are the only ones still young enough to do an Easter egg hunt and since Matthew can’t eat eggs and Malia doesn’t like them hard boiled, they never even missed it. We did, however, make our annual bunny buns. They definitely would have missed that one if we had skipped it. And since I was not going to get to it, Nathan made jello eggs. The kids love those. We also did our very own little Easter egg hunt. Matthew and Malia quite enjoyed it. And Matthew's mouth was already full of candy by the time all the eggs were gathered.
So our holiday was calmer than usual, but I’m okay with that. It was actually really nice.
So our holiday was calmer than usual, but I’m okay with that. It was actually really nice.
Saturday, March 26, 2016
The BLOG POST OF WONDER
(That is Daniel's title...and this is Daniel's recap of FanX. As mentioned in the previous post, there will be a bit of repetition here at the beginning.)
So, for Christmas, I got the experience gift of going to FanX 2016. All three days. And it was over Spring Break, so I didn’t miss any school. It was great. Get ready for a long explanation.
Day one opened up bright and sunny. Nathan and I needed to be on a 10-something train to meet up with my aunt and some cousins. I woke up and made my hat for Inspector Gadget. I had taken an old umbrella and cut the fabric off of it. I then fixed some of the technical issues that it had (some of the supports were bent and damaged so that the umbrella would cave in on one side), using the Go, Go, Gadget Duct Tape. Yay for Duct Tape! Anyway, I then taped random stuff onto the ends, including a baby embodied in paper.
Notice all of the random stuff I taped on. That turned out well. I got on the train with Nathan and had a couple people that conversed with us about FanX. We got to the station that we were to meet those we were meeting, and then rode the train down to Salt Lake. We got there and walked to the Salt Palace. Outside, there was a couple of still photo ops outside from the Hobbit. They were the Cave Trolls, Gandalf, and Gollum. I tried to put my Inspector Gadget hat on, but the wind blew it over. I opted to leave it off.
That was cool to be able to do. When we got into the lobby of the Salt Palace by the entrance to the Grand Ballroom and saw the full size TARDIS prop. I thought that that was cool, so Nathan and I went over and we got our picture taken by the TARDIS.
I would have stood inside by Nathan, but my hat couldn’t fit through the door. After that, I went my first ever panel. It was the Peter Davison panel. For those that don’t know, Peter Davison was the 5th Doctor in Doctor Who. He talked about his career and how Doctor Who has changed his life. He also shared how he is now the father-in-law to David Tenant, another Doctor. He also talked about his experiences on the set of Doctor Who. It was a good panel to go to. That was followed by my first experience with the Vendor Floor. Man, the vendor floor is nuts. Tons of vendors selling stuff to those that attended the Con. I will get into more detail of the vendor floor later.
After the time on the floor, we bought tickets for the Buzz Aldrin panel. We went into the grand ballroom and sat down for the panel. We didn’t sit very long before the panel started. They showed a video of Buzz Aldrin, then they brought him out. He was a great deal shorter than all of the pictures let him on to be. His panel was fantastic. He spoke about how the USA united to come together and put a man on the moon. He also told about some of the things that not many people know about the Apollo 11 mission. Such things were that it was tiny and cramped on the spacecraft. Also, they had a small problem on the moon inside of the Lunar Lander. While they were working on pressurizing the cabin, one of the breaker switches broke off of the console. That was something that they said was a thing to warrant a “Houston, we have a problem” from the Eagle, because the switch that broke off was the main engine start for the ascent stage off of the moon. They phoned in and Houston told them to go to sleep. Buzz said that that was very likely in a sarcastic way. In the morning they got up and went about their stuff and Houston basically said that they needed to use a pointed thing to push the breaker in to get power to the circuit. Buzz’s little finger was just small enough, but there was electricity arcing inside. The ballpoint pen was all metal, so zap there too. They ended up using a felt pen to activate it. After that, Buzz talked about how he continued his career in space by talking and working with NASA about going to Mars. That was the end of the panel, and I had really enjoyed it.
After the panel, we went and stood in line for the Buzz Aldrin photo op. I technically wasn’t supposed to be in this one, but Ben insisted that I go because he had other things and friends to meet with. I wasn’t opposed in the slightest. When I walked in, Buzz said to me, “Will you be telling us which way the wind will be blowing?” That was cool, and I replied with a “Sure.”
After that, we went and wandered the floor for a bit more. There were three photo ops that day and so I spent a ton of time in the photo ops area of the floor. I went and got the ops with Sylvester McCoy and Peter Davison, both Doctors from Doctor Who.
After the ops, I wandered the floor for a while and bought a couple of things. I got the War Doctor’s Sonic Screwdriver and a couple of pho-Lego minifigures. While I wandered the floor, I had people come up to me and say, “You are Inspector Gadget! I like your cosplay!” or “Cool, you’re Inspector Gadget, right? Can I have a picture with you?” or even, “You are very creative. I think that you are Inspector Gadget, right?” It was all good and after I got home, I couldn’t count or remember all of the pictures I had taken of me or people with me. I would also just walk down the aisles and would hear Inspector Gadget eight or nine times. That was something to remember. My uncle explained why it was such a hit, “You are a character that the adults remember and love and one that kids will know and love. All parties satisfied.” There were even a couple of encounters that were rather awkward to be a part of. In my wanderings of the floor, I found a booth that was put on by an artist. This one caught my attention because the pictures that he had were all made of words. For example, the one I bought was a Star Trek Next Generation Enterprise made up of quotes from the TNG movie series. A picture of words. I wandered about after I saw it, but I kept being drawn to the booth, so I gave in and bought the Enterprise. I blew through about 75% of the money I had that night (the sonic and the print were quite expensive). I went home with a couple of lessons learned that night, one about being thrifty (I thought that I could have bought the sonic for less elsewhere than I paid at the con) and the other that Thursday was the best day to spend on the Vendor Floor because they had the most wares that they were selling on Thursday and Friday. We went home at about 8:00 and Nathan and I were both tired, but glad to have had such a good day.
Day two opened up cold and cloudy. I was sick and tired of the umbrella that kept falling off of my head. So, I planned out a 10th Doctor Cosplay. I loved that decision. Not a single “Oh you are this!” told to me all day. That was great. I had to be on an 8-something train to meet with my cousins again. When we got downtown, my aunt issued a challenge. “I’ll buy something small for the person to sight the most Deadpools.” I kept my eyes open from there on out. I spent some time on the floor, then went to my first panel of the day. It was the Alan Tudyk panel. And it was fantastic, being one of my favorite panels. Alan Tudyk talked about his career and a couple of experiences that he had on sets for various movies. He talked about his weirdest and most gross experiences that he had on set. He is a really cool and hilarious guy. To his panel, he brought a bag full of random… Stuff. And to all of those that asked him a question, he pulled out something random, signed it, and gave it to the person who asked him a question. The most random thing was a contact from his left eye. One he gave away was what he called an “Almost good gift” because it was a Firefly action figure, minus the action figure. It was just the cardboard backing. Overall, his panel was great.
After his panel was done, I wandered the floor until I was called to the grand ballroom for the George Takei panel. We got there early enough that we saw the end of the Summer Glau panel. She is another actress from Firefly, for those who don’t know. The end of that panel was good, as she talked about how she had to learn martial arts for the Firefly/Serenity series. The panel afterward, George Takei, was much better though. He opened up with his signature “Oh my.” That was very cool to hear. He spent about 20 minutes at the beginning of the panel explaining how Star Trek was such a big deal when it first aired in 1966. He explained the cultural implications that the leads had. He spoke about the ethnicity of each of the bridge crew, such as Lt. Uhura being African American and Pavel Chekov being Russian. This was explained to be right in the middle of the civil rights movement and the Cold War. It was a utopian society that struck people. He also spoke about that Star Trek was canceled and how they thought that that was the end of Star Trek. Yet, Star Trek has reached its 50th aniversery in 2016. Why? George Takei said that he thought that it was the social implications of such at Utopic society and that fact that the Enterprise is like the Earth, in that if we band together, then the world can do great things. After that very serious and meaningful speech, he opened the floor to questions. The questions were about his career and Star Trek. Someone asked about his “Oh my” origins. He said that he was advertising for his biography at a radio station that wasn’t so good. He walked into the recording room, and explained the dialogue that followed like this:
(Standard Greetings)
Announcer: “You have a deep voice. I would expect a deep voiced man like you to have a big dog.”
George Takei: (Exasperated) “Are we on air?”
Announcer: “Yes.”
George Takei: “Oh my.”
That was the origin. Not only were they on air, but they were being recorded, too. Every time something like that happened on the radio show, the announcer would push a button that activated the “Oh my” sound effect in George Takei’s voice. That was fun to learn about. Overall, the rest of his panel was great.
After his panel, we went and wandered the floor some more. Then we began to mill by the Photo Op area for the Jason Isaacs Photo Op. Jason Isaacs did Lucius Malfoy in Harry Potter.
After that, one of my cousins and my aunt went over to mill by the Photo op area again, this time for the Alex Kingston photo op (River Song from Doctor Who). It would just be me and my cousin in it, so we began to plan something. When we got there, we were pretty well told, “No Touchie!” So we planned that we would stand at a distance and stare at her adoringly. When we got in there and we stood, Alex pulled us in and said, “Come on, get close!” We left with this photo:
(Shauna here, adding my two cents-Patti sent me a picture of Daniel and his cousin Josh just after their photo op with Alex Kingston. I love that Daniel is totally grinning and obviously a little starstruck in this photo. :-) )
We all laughed because it was a ton of fun to do. After the photo op, we went over and spent 5 minutes debating about whether or not to buy a George Takei autograph. We finally decided to go and buy one. When we got up there, we talked with him about how my grandparents watched Star Trek as a child and how he now watches it consistently on blue ray. He also taught us some words in the English language that were derived from French. Man, he is awesome. As my cousin put it he is a star, which is a step above celebrity. We concluded that hour with smiles on our faces and a fun set of memories.
Somewhere in-between things, we found a photo opportunity in the lobby. I thought it was cool, and I got a picture of me in it.
We continued to wander the floor after that. That was quite uneventful. No can I have your picture moments. Yes! That was great. After that, we went to the last panel of the day, which was a Doctor Who Ultimate Experience. They got all four of the Doctor Who actors that made it to the con (Peter Davison, Sylvester McCoy, Alex Kingston, and Matt Smith) together and did a panel. In this panel, they had the TARDIS prop on stage and they all entered via TARDIS.
It was loud in the ballroom. Hundreds of people yelling at the top of their lungs in a confined space makes for ear deafening loudness. After the room calmed down, the panel officially started. There were questions asked about the careers of the actors in relation to Doctor Who. They talked about some of the funny and embarrassing things they have done on and off set, Doctor Who or otherwise. One question that was posed was about the signature item that each character had and their origin. For Peter Davison, his signature celery stick was given to him by the directors so that there would be something unique about him. It never was really explained in the TV series until the last of Peter Davison’s episodes where it was revealed that too much of a certain gas would make it turn purple, then eating it would be the antidote. Sylvester McCoy’s signature thing was his umbrella. He asked for an umbrella for his character, and they came back with an umbrella with a question mark at the end. He loved it. Matt Smith’s signature bowtie and fez took a bit longer to explain. He said that while they were finding a costume, Matt wanted something that the other doctors didn’t have, a different look. He first got a brown coat with some high cuffed pants and a plaid button up. The Directors told him that that was good. Matt then asked, “Can I have a bow tie?” The directors looked at him like he was nuts. He gave them a look that said that he was going to have it. The first couple of his references to bowties being cool were all spur of the moment things. Later on, Matt was asking for a hat for his doctor. He said that it seemed that most of the other doctors had a preferred hat. The directors said no a couple of times. Finally, after Matt had insisted to the point of annoyance, the directors gave him a fez, thinking he would hate it. They were wrong. It became his cool hat. The panel went very similar to that for the entire hour and a half. We got on the train and headed home, utterly exhausted.
Day three was cloudless but cold. That day I decided to go as the 11th Doctor. I had a blue shirt that seemed very 11th Doctor-like that went rather poorly with my suit. I also tied on a black bow tie (11th Doctors thing). I got on the train and met my cousins, which was the same as the two other days. We got down to Salt Lake City and then sat in panels all morning. 3 end to end panels in the Ballroom. They were all great! The first panel was Alex Kingston. She said a lot of the same things the night before, except for how she decided to go into theatre. While young she had wanted to be a Flight attendant and then the British form of a judge. High school rolled around, and she realized that she wanted to be those things entirely for the costume, not the profession. That is how she decided to go into theatre, which lead into a TV role, which boosted her popularity.
The next panel was the Jason Isaacs panel. Man, he is just as funny as Alan Tudyk. He first went through all of the questions that were asked all of the time, which consisted of “What was it like to be Lucius Malfoy?” “What did you have to do to get the role?” “What was it like to work on the Harry Potter movies?” He answered all of those before he got the actual questions. He said that all of those were really simple questions. Answers were often too broad to answer bluntly, so he would share an experience. The experience I remember most (that he said) was his creation of the signature Malfoy look. He saw the concept art and didn’t like it. It showed a business man, short hair, and a muggle like suit. He knew of the character, and rejected the concept art. Malfoy was a person who had held power for so long, that the change when it came to the muggle-borns and those that were related to that aspect scared him. That was why he was such a bully. Also, he hated the muggles. Why would he dress like one and have a haircut like one? That was a very good reason for the way he looked and was great at his role. He also shared that his most rewarding role that he ever did was Lucius Malfoy. That was a very good panel.
The next panel was the Jeromy Renner (Hawkeye in the new Marvel movies) panel. There were questions posed to him about his career as Hawkeye, and about the upcoming movie Civil War. All he said about Civil War was that he didn’t know and he had spent a ton of time coming out to see the SLC Comic Con. There were questions about his archery skills. Regarding those, he said that the hardest shots for him were the ones he actually had to do. All of the other ones were CG. He also said that the archery Hawkeye does really isn’t archery, but is more of a trick shot and luck shot sport, seeing as many are impossible. He also talked about some of the other roles that he did, which were many that I had never heard of. It was a decent panel.
After that, we left the ballroom. We walked the floor for a bit, and I bought stuff for my parents. My aunt, cousin and I went and milled for about an hour and a half by the Photo Op area for our last photo op of the con, the Matt Smith one. While we were waiting, we went over and spoke to an entirely alone Sylvester McCoy. It was short, but it was still cool to talk with him. We shortly spoke about the panel the previous night, and how he was one of the liveliest up there, giving sound effects and crazy hand gesturing. That was short as a group of other people came up to see him. We then waited more for the Photo Op. And waited. And waited. And waited some more. The Photo Op people were really badly behind that day. Saturday is the worst day for Photo ops.
We finally got through. Looking at the photo op, we saw just how tired Matt Smith looked. He had just been through a combo photo op with Alex Kingston. With tons of people. Yet, at his alone one, he looked tired. We were VIP, so we were one of the first to get our picture taken. I felt sorry for him. I wandered the floor a bit more after that, and then went to a panel, which was about the Marvel Cinematic Universe. I left about half way through. There was no way I would have listened to it longer than I did. I found out that speculation and a hard core and deep knowledge of the comic books made for a panel that was less about the Cinematic Universe, and more about what the panelists thought about the comic books and what ones they would like to see in the cinematic universe. I was board.
The last thing of the night was the Dr. Horrible’s Sing Along Blog Sing Along panel. That was a very different experience. There is something about having 900 other people singing and reciting the movie with you that changes the experience. That was fun to behold. After, there was a raffle where groaning was encouraged because the hosts thought it was fun. I never thought that groaning could be fun! Afterward, I headed home. I was tired enough that I forgot that the next day was Easter. Yup. That is tired.
(Shauna again-this is Daniel's totally-tired-but-still-having-fun look.)
Here are some other random facts that I learned about the FanX Comic Con 2016. As I learned these, I was kind of amazed. Fact #1: SLC Comic Con is the third largest in the nation, preceded by New York and San Diego. Fact #2: The Hashtag #FanX16 was the highest trending hashtag in the world those three days. Fact #3: There were two other cons going on around the nation at the same time, and SLC was crushing them in attendance and trending, even though this FanX is the smaller of the two cons that SLC does. These were all really cool facts that I learned.
So, there is a sum up of my FanX Christmas gift. It was the most fun I have had in a while. I never thought that waiting in line could be so much fun until FanX.
(Me again, adding my last comment-Patti told me that Josh had fun hanging out with Daniel because they like all the same things. I'm so glad that my kids are friends with their cousins and enjoy their company rather than just tolerating it.)
So, for Christmas, I got the experience gift of going to FanX 2016. All three days. And it was over Spring Break, so I didn’t miss any school. It was great. Get ready for a long explanation.
Day one opened up bright and sunny. Nathan and I needed to be on a 10-something train to meet up with my aunt and some cousins. I woke up and made my hat for Inspector Gadget. I had taken an old umbrella and cut the fabric off of it. I then fixed some of the technical issues that it had (some of the supports were bent and damaged so that the umbrella would cave in on one side), using the Go, Go, Gadget Duct Tape. Yay for Duct Tape! Anyway, I then taped random stuff onto the ends, including a baby embodied in paper.
Notice all of the random stuff I taped on. That turned out well. I got on the train with Nathan and had a couple people that conversed with us about FanX. We got to the station that we were to meet those we were meeting, and then rode the train down to Salt Lake. We got there and walked to the Salt Palace. Outside, there was a couple of still photo ops outside from the Hobbit. They were the Cave Trolls, Gandalf, and Gollum. I tried to put my Inspector Gadget hat on, but the wind blew it over. I opted to leave it off.
That was cool to be able to do. When we got into the lobby of the Salt Palace by the entrance to the Grand Ballroom and saw the full size TARDIS prop. I thought that that was cool, so Nathan and I went over and we got our picture taken by the TARDIS.
I would have stood inside by Nathan, but my hat couldn’t fit through the door. After that, I went my first ever panel. It was the Peter Davison panel. For those that don’t know, Peter Davison was the 5th Doctor in Doctor Who. He talked about his career and how Doctor Who has changed his life. He also shared how he is now the father-in-law to David Tenant, another Doctor. He also talked about his experiences on the set of Doctor Who. It was a good panel to go to. That was followed by my first experience with the Vendor Floor. Man, the vendor floor is nuts. Tons of vendors selling stuff to those that attended the Con. I will get into more detail of the vendor floor later.
After the time on the floor, we bought tickets for the Buzz Aldrin panel. We went into the grand ballroom and sat down for the panel. We didn’t sit very long before the panel started. They showed a video of Buzz Aldrin, then they brought him out. He was a great deal shorter than all of the pictures let him on to be. His panel was fantastic. He spoke about how the USA united to come together and put a man on the moon. He also told about some of the things that not many people know about the Apollo 11 mission. Such things were that it was tiny and cramped on the spacecraft. Also, they had a small problem on the moon inside of the Lunar Lander. While they were working on pressurizing the cabin, one of the breaker switches broke off of the console. That was something that they said was a thing to warrant a “Houston, we have a problem” from the Eagle, because the switch that broke off was the main engine start for the ascent stage off of the moon. They phoned in and Houston told them to go to sleep. Buzz said that that was very likely in a sarcastic way. In the morning they got up and went about their stuff and Houston basically said that they needed to use a pointed thing to push the breaker in to get power to the circuit. Buzz’s little finger was just small enough, but there was electricity arcing inside. The ballpoint pen was all metal, so zap there too. They ended up using a felt pen to activate it. After that, Buzz talked about how he continued his career in space by talking and working with NASA about going to Mars. That was the end of the panel, and I had really enjoyed it.
After the panel, we went and stood in line for the Buzz Aldrin photo op. I technically wasn’t supposed to be in this one, but Ben insisted that I go because he had other things and friends to meet with. I wasn’t opposed in the slightest. When I walked in, Buzz said to me, “Will you be telling us which way the wind will be blowing?” That was cool, and I replied with a “Sure.”
After that, we went and wandered the floor for a bit more. There were three photo ops that day and so I spent a ton of time in the photo ops area of the floor. I went and got the ops with Sylvester McCoy and Peter Davison, both Doctors from Doctor Who.
After the ops, I wandered the floor for a while and bought a couple of things. I got the War Doctor’s Sonic Screwdriver and a couple of pho-Lego minifigures. While I wandered the floor, I had people come up to me and say, “You are Inspector Gadget! I like your cosplay!” or “Cool, you’re Inspector Gadget, right? Can I have a picture with you?” or even, “You are very creative. I think that you are Inspector Gadget, right?” It was all good and after I got home, I couldn’t count or remember all of the pictures I had taken of me or people with me. I would also just walk down the aisles and would hear Inspector Gadget eight or nine times. That was something to remember. My uncle explained why it was such a hit, “You are a character that the adults remember and love and one that kids will know and love. All parties satisfied.” There were even a couple of encounters that were rather awkward to be a part of. In my wanderings of the floor, I found a booth that was put on by an artist. This one caught my attention because the pictures that he had were all made of words. For example, the one I bought was a Star Trek Next Generation Enterprise made up of quotes from the TNG movie series. A picture of words. I wandered about after I saw it, but I kept being drawn to the booth, so I gave in and bought the Enterprise. I blew through about 75% of the money I had that night (the sonic and the print were quite expensive). I went home with a couple of lessons learned that night, one about being thrifty (I thought that I could have bought the sonic for less elsewhere than I paid at the con) and the other that Thursday was the best day to spend on the Vendor Floor because they had the most wares that they were selling on Thursday and Friday. We went home at about 8:00 and Nathan and I were both tired, but glad to have had such a good day.
Day two opened up cold and cloudy. I was sick and tired of the umbrella that kept falling off of my head. So, I planned out a 10th Doctor Cosplay. I loved that decision. Not a single “Oh you are this!” told to me all day. That was great. I had to be on an 8-something train to meet with my cousins again. When we got downtown, my aunt issued a challenge. “I’ll buy something small for the person to sight the most Deadpools.” I kept my eyes open from there on out. I spent some time on the floor, then went to my first panel of the day. It was the Alan Tudyk panel. And it was fantastic, being one of my favorite panels. Alan Tudyk talked about his career and a couple of experiences that he had on sets for various movies. He talked about his weirdest and most gross experiences that he had on set. He is a really cool and hilarious guy. To his panel, he brought a bag full of random… Stuff. And to all of those that asked him a question, he pulled out something random, signed it, and gave it to the person who asked him a question. The most random thing was a contact from his left eye. One he gave away was what he called an “Almost good gift” because it was a Firefly action figure, minus the action figure. It was just the cardboard backing. Overall, his panel was great.
After his panel was done, I wandered the floor until I was called to the grand ballroom for the George Takei panel. We got there early enough that we saw the end of the Summer Glau panel. She is another actress from Firefly, for those who don’t know. The end of that panel was good, as she talked about how she had to learn martial arts for the Firefly/Serenity series. The panel afterward, George Takei, was much better though. He opened up with his signature “Oh my.” That was very cool to hear. He spent about 20 minutes at the beginning of the panel explaining how Star Trek was such a big deal when it first aired in 1966. He explained the cultural implications that the leads had. He spoke about the ethnicity of each of the bridge crew, such as Lt. Uhura being African American and Pavel Chekov being Russian. This was explained to be right in the middle of the civil rights movement and the Cold War. It was a utopian society that struck people. He also spoke about that Star Trek was canceled and how they thought that that was the end of Star Trek. Yet, Star Trek has reached its 50th aniversery in 2016. Why? George Takei said that he thought that it was the social implications of such at Utopic society and that fact that the Enterprise is like the Earth, in that if we band together, then the world can do great things. After that very serious and meaningful speech, he opened the floor to questions. The questions were about his career and Star Trek. Someone asked about his “Oh my” origins. He said that he was advertising for his biography at a radio station that wasn’t so good. He walked into the recording room, and explained the dialogue that followed like this:
(Standard Greetings)
Announcer: “You have a deep voice. I would expect a deep voiced man like you to have a big dog.”
George Takei: (Exasperated) “Are we on air?”
Announcer: “Yes.”
George Takei: “Oh my.”
That was the origin. Not only were they on air, but they were being recorded, too. Every time something like that happened on the radio show, the announcer would push a button that activated the “Oh my” sound effect in George Takei’s voice. That was fun to learn about. Overall, the rest of his panel was great.
After his panel, we went and wandered the floor some more. Then we began to mill by the Photo Op area for the Jason Isaacs Photo Op. Jason Isaacs did Lucius Malfoy in Harry Potter.
After that, one of my cousins and my aunt went over to mill by the Photo op area again, this time for the Alex Kingston photo op (River Song from Doctor Who). It would just be me and my cousin in it, so we began to plan something. When we got there, we were pretty well told, “No Touchie!” So we planned that we would stand at a distance and stare at her adoringly. When we got in there and we stood, Alex pulled us in and said, “Come on, get close!” We left with this photo:
(Shauna here, adding my two cents-Patti sent me a picture of Daniel and his cousin Josh just after their photo op with Alex Kingston. I love that Daniel is totally grinning and obviously a little starstruck in this photo. :-) )
We all laughed because it was a ton of fun to do. After the photo op, we went over and spent 5 minutes debating about whether or not to buy a George Takei autograph. We finally decided to go and buy one. When we got up there, we talked with him about how my grandparents watched Star Trek as a child and how he now watches it consistently on blue ray. He also taught us some words in the English language that were derived from French. Man, he is awesome. As my cousin put it he is a star, which is a step above celebrity. We concluded that hour with smiles on our faces and a fun set of memories.
Somewhere in-between things, we found a photo opportunity in the lobby. I thought it was cool, and I got a picture of me in it.
We continued to wander the floor after that. That was quite uneventful. No can I have your picture moments. Yes! That was great. After that, we went to the last panel of the day, which was a Doctor Who Ultimate Experience. They got all four of the Doctor Who actors that made it to the con (Peter Davison, Sylvester McCoy, Alex Kingston, and Matt Smith) together and did a panel. In this panel, they had the TARDIS prop on stage and they all entered via TARDIS.
It was loud in the ballroom. Hundreds of people yelling at the top of their lungs in a confined space makes for ear deafening loudness. After the room calmed down, the panel officially started. There were questions asked about the careers of the actors in relation to Doctor Who. They talked about some of the funny and embarrassing things they have done on and off set, Doctor Who or otherwise. One question that was posed was about the signature item that each character had and their origin. For Peter Davison, his signature celery stick was given to him by the directors so that there would be something unique about him. It never was really explained in the TV series until the last of Peter Davison’s episodes where it was revealed that too much of a certain gas would make it turn purple, then eating it would be the antidote. Sylvester McCoy’s signature thing was his umbrella. He asked for an umbrella for his character, and they came back with an umbrella with a question mark at the end. He loved it. Matt Smith’s signature bowtie and fez took a bit longer to explain. He said that while they were finding a costume, Matt wanted something that the other doctors didn’t have, a different look. He first got a brown coat with some high cuffed pants and a plaid button up. The Directors told him that that was good. Matt then asked, “Can I have a bow tie?” The directors looked at him like he was nuts. He gave them a look that said that he was going to have it. The first couple of his references to bowties being cool were all spur of the moment things. Later on, Matt was asking for a hat for his doctor. He said that it seemed that most of the other doctors had a preferred hat. The directors said no a couple of times. Finally, after Matt had insisted to the point of annoyance, the directors gave him a fez, thinking he would hate it. They were wrong. It became his cool hat. The panel went very similar to that for the entire hour and a half. We got on the train and headed home, utterly exhausted.
Day three was cloudless but cold. That day I decided to go as the 11th Doctor. I had a blue shirt that seemed very 11th Doctor-like that went rather poorly with my suit. I also tied on a black bow tie (11th Doctors thing). I got on the train and met my cousins, which was the same as the two other days. We got down to Salt Lake City and then sat in panels all morning. 3 end to end panels in the Ballroom. They were all great! The first panel was Alex Kingston. She said a lot of the same things the night before, except for how she decided to go into theatre. While young she had wanted to be a Flight attendant and then the British form of a judge. High school rolled around, and she realized that she wanted to be those things entirely for the costume, not the profession. That is how she decided to go into theatre, which lead into a TV role, which boosted her popularity.
The next panel was the Jason Isaacs panel. Man, he is just as funny as Alan Tudyk. He first went through all of the questions that were asked all of the time, which consisted of “What was it like to be Lucius Malfoy?” “What did you have to do to get the role?” “What was it like to work on the Harry Potter movies?” He answered all of those before he got the actual questions. He said that all of those were really simple questions. Answers were often too broad to answer bluntly, so he would share an experience. The experience I remember most (that he said) was his creation of the signature Malfoy look. He saw the concept art and didn’t like it. It showed a business man, short hair, and a muggle like suit. He knew of the character, and rejected the concept art. Malfoy was a person who had held power for so long, that the change when it came to the muggle-borns and those that were related to that aspect scared him. That was why he was such a bully. Also, he hated the muggles. Why would he dress like one and have a haircut like one? That was a very good reason for the way he looked and was great at his role. He also shared that his most rewarding role that he ever did was Lucius Malfoy. That was a very good panel.
The next panel was the Jeromy Renner (Hawkeye in the new Marvel movies) panel. There were questions posed to him about his career as Hawkeye, and about the upcoming movie Civil War. All he said about Civil War was that he didn’t know and he had spent a ton of time coming out to see the SLC Comic Con. There were questions about his archery skills. Regarding those, he said that the hardest shots for him were the ones he actually had to do. All of the other ones were CG. He also said that the archery Hawkeye does really isn’t archery, but is more of a trick shot and luck shot sport, seeing as many are impossible. He also talked about some of the other roles that he did, which were many that I had never heard of. It was a decent panel.
After that, we left the ballroom. We walked the floor for a bit, and I bought stuff for my parents. My aunt, cousin and I went and milled for about an hour and a half by the Photo Op area for our last photo op of the con, the Matt Smith one. While we were waiting, we went over and spoke to an entirely alone Sylvester McCoy. It was short, but it was still cool to talk with him. We shortly spoke about the panel the previous night, and how he was one of the liveliest up there, giving sound effects and crazy hand gesturing. That was short as a group of other people came up to see him. We then waited more for the Photo Op. And waited. And waited. And waited some more. The Photo Op people were really badly behind that day. Saturday is the worst day for Photo ops.
We finally got through. Looking at the photo op, we saw just how tired Matt Smith looked. He had just been through a combo photo op with Alex Kingston. With tons of people. Yet, at his alone one, he looked tired. We were VIP, so we were one of the first to get our picture taken. I felt sorry for him. I wandered the floor a bit more after that, and then went to a panel, which was about the Marvel Cinematic Universe. I left about half way through. There was no way I would have listened to it longer than I did. I found out that speculation and a hard core and deep knowledge of the comic books made for a panel that was less about the Cinematic Universe, and more about what the panelists thought about the comic books and what ones they would like to see in the cinematic universe. I was board.
The last thing of the night was the Dr. Horrible’s Sing Along Blog Sing Along panel. That was a very different experience. There is something about having 900 other people singing and reciting the movie with you that changes the experience. That was fun to behold. After, there was a raffle where groaning was encouraged because the hosts thought it was fun. I never thought that groaning could be fun! Afterward, I headed home. I was tired enough that I forgot that the next day was Easter. Yup. That is tired.
(Shauna again-this is Daniel's totally-tired-but-still-having-fun look.)
Here are some other random facts that I learned about the FanX Comic Con 2016. As I learned these, I was kind of amazed. Fact #1: SLC Comic Con is the third largest in the nation, preceded by New York and San Diego. Fact #2: The Hashtag #FanX16 was the highest trending hashtag in the world those three days. Fact #3: There were two other cons going on around the nation at the same time, and SLC was crushing them in attendance and trending, even though this FanX is the smaller of the two cons that SLC does. These were all really cool facts that I learned.
So, there is a sum up of my FanX Christmas gift. It was the most fun I have had in a while. I never thought that waiting in line could be so much fun until FanX.
(Me again, adding my last comment-Patti told me that Josh had fun hanging out with Daniel because they like all the same things. I'm so glad that my kids are friends with their cousins and enjoy their company rather than just tolerating it.)
Rubbing Shoulders With the Rich and Famous
Daniel and Nathan went to FanX (comic con's little brother) this weekend. They went with my sister Patti and her family. (Big thank you, by the way!!) They have been super excited about it and will be my guest bloggers to tell you all about their experiences. There may be a bit of repetition since both boys gave their synopsis of Thursday's events. We'll start with Nathan who had one day of fun:
As an experience gift, Daniel got to go to Comic Con with a gold pass. Along with the purchase of a Gold Pass, you get a free one day Pass. So, I got a one day pass to go to Comic Con and have a blast.
We went to comic con with my aunt, who happened to have a VIP pass which meant that we could get into the floor and into the building and hour earlier that everybody else. And everyone in the VIP party could go with them. SO, we got to go in and explore before many other people. When we arrived at the Slat Palace, I discovered that they had set up Hobbit figures for people to take pictures with. So, I got a picture with them.
After the pictures, we entered the Salt Palace and proceeded to work our way to our first panel, which was a Peter Davidson Panel. On the way, I found someone who had dressed as Captain Spider (from the Civil War trailer) and I snapped a picture because I thought that it looked cool. Also, I had to stand and marvel at the sheer size of the floor. And, in the main entry way, there was a lif-size TARDIS in place for lots of photos:
The Panel was really cool because we got to here Peter's own opinion on things. For those of you who do not know, Peter Davidson is the actor who played on the doctors on BBC's Doctor Who.
After the Panel, we proceeded to enter the floor. As I was going to enter, the person policing the entrance made me stay back, because I had a one day pass, even though I WAS IN A VIP PARTY!! It was frustrating, but my aunt stayed back with me. So, I got a pic with the teenage mutant ninja turtle.
Then after a short wait, I was able to go into the floor. Most of the time was spent exploring the floor, but I was able to be in 4 photos! I got to meet the person who voice acted Donald Duck, which was cool because he did the Donald voice, which made it really cool.
This next stuff is not necessarily in order, but I REALLY ENJOYED IT ALL!
I went to a BUZZ ALDRIN panel, (which for those of you who do not know, he was one of the first men on the moon, and went with Neil Armstrong to the moon.) He told a story of how the main engine started circuit breaker switch had broken of in the Lunar Module, and how they ended up using a felt tipped pen to start the engine. Afterwards, I was IN A PHOTO With HIM AND GOT TO MEET HIM!!! It was REALLY Cool.
I also got to meet and chat with SYLVESTER McCOY and PETER DAVISON!!! Those two were doctors in Doctor Who, which made it really cool.
This was really fun, and I got to meet a lot of cool people. On a random side note, I spent a lot of money and got this: Sonic Screwdriver toy, Spider-man Shirt and Pin, and a cool Spaceballs quote art image. This experience was REALLY fun, and I would love to go back again.
(Shauna here-Nathan gets really chatty when he is excited. He was so wired up when he got home that he had trouble winding down to go to bed.)
As an experience gift, Daniel got to go to Comic Con with a gold pass. Along with the purchase of a Gold Pass, you get a free one day Pass. So, I got a one day pass to go to Comic Con and have a blast.
We went to comic con with my aunt, who happened to have a VIP pass which meant that we could get into the floor and into the building and hour earlier that everybody else. And everyone in the VIP party could go with them. SO, we got to go in and explore before many other people. When we arrived at the Slat Palace, I discovered that they had set up Hobbit figures for people to take pictures with. So, I got a picture with them.
After the pictures, we entered the Salt Palace and proceeded to work our way to our first panel, which was a Peter Davidson Panel. On the way, I found someone who had dressed as Captain Spider (from the Civil War trailer) and I snapped a picture because I thought that it looked cool. Also, I had to stand and marvel at the sheer size of the floor. And, in the main entry way, there was a lif-size TARDIS in place for lots of photos:
The Panel was really cool because we got to here Peter's own opinion on things. For those of you who do not know, Peter Davidson is the actor who played on the doctors on BBC's Doctor Who.
After the Panel, we proceeded to enter the floor. As I was going to enter, the person policing the entrance made me stay back, because I had a one day pass, even though I WAS IN A VIP PARTY!! It was frustrating, but my aunt stayed back with me. So, I got a pic with the teenage mutant ninja turtle.
Then after a short wait, I was able to go into the floor. Most of the time was spent exploring the floor, but I was able to be in 4 photos! I got to meet the person who voice acted Donald Duck, which was cool because he did the Donald voice, which made it really cool.
This next stuff is not necessarily in order, but I REALLY ENJOYED IT ALL!
I went to a BUZZ ALDRIN panel, (which for those of you who do not know, he was one of the first men on the moon, and went with Neil Armstrong to the moon.) He told a story of how the main engine started circuit breaker switch had broken of in the Lunar Module, and how they ended up using a felt tipped pen to start the engine. Afterwards, I was IN A PHOTO With HIM AND GOT TO MEET HIM!!! It was REALLY Cool.
I also got to meet and chat with SYLVESTER McCOY and PETER DAVISON!!! Those two were doctors in Doctor Who, which made it really cool.
This was really fun, and I got to meet a lot of cool people. On a random side note, I spent a lot of money and got this: Sonic Screwdriver toy, Spider-man Shirt and Pin, and a cool Spaceballs quote art image. This experience was REALLY fun, and I would love to go back again.
(Shauna here-Nathan gets really chatty when he is excited. He was so wired up when he got home that he had trouble winding down to go to bed.)
Monday, March 21, 2016
I Try Not To Laugh At My Children
Okay. That’s a total lie. I have a tendency to laugh at my children fairly regularly. However, I don’t laugh in a mean way. I think it’s important to teach them that it’s okay and actually healthy to laugh at themselves. It helps them keep things in perspective.
I have stress dreams during times of (duh) stress and even though I haven’t been in school for nearly twenty years, most of my stress dreams still center on school-having a final when I’ve never been to the class, having a paper due that I didn’t know about, the curtain is about to rise on the school play and I've never been to rehearsal, I can’t remember what class is next or where it is, I can’t remember my locker combination, etc. Yes, I’m forty-two years old and I still have dreams about forgetting my locker combination. It’s ridiculous but it’s a sign of stress.
Nathan has also started having stress dreams from time to time. Nathan’s stress dreams have been different than mine, mostly having something to do with music. This evening he shared last night’s stress dream with us. It was about Mack Wilburg and Johnny Depp. Mack was directing Johnny in the William Tell Overture. Johnny was singing. {insert laugh here-we did}
So yes. I laugh at my offspring. And usually they laugh with me.
I have stress dreams during times of (duh) stress and even though I haven’t been in school for nearly twenty years, most of my stress dreams still center on school-having a final when I’ve never been to the class, having a paper due that I didn’t know about, the curtain is about to rise on the school play and I've never been to rehearsal, I can’t remember what class is next or where it is, I can’t remember my locker combination, etc. Yes, I’m forty-two years old and I still have dreams about forgetting my locker combination. It’s ridiculous but it’s a sign of stress.
Nathan has also started having stress dreams from time to time. Nathan’s stress dreams have been different than mine, mostly having something to do with music. This evening he shared last night’s stress dream with us. It was about Mack Wilburg and Johnny Depp. Mack was directing Johnny in the William Tell Overture. Johnny was singing. {insert laugh here-we did}
So yes. I laugh at my offspring. And usually they laugh with me.
Friday, March 18, 2016
An Observation
It’s awfully hard to get into the mental calm of yoga when your two youngest offspring are yelling at each other.
Tuesday, March 15, 2016
Murphy’s Law of Having Dinner Early
My life used to be full of Murphy’s Laws. There were laws about explosive diaper incidents, sick children, vomiting, etc. Having young children meant my life was pretty much one law after another. But now that I no longer have teeny tinies at home, Murphy is no longer a daily presence in our home. And it has been nice. But Murphy must have been looking for a way to weasel back into our house because I discovered a new law today.
Our middle school holds concerts and other evening events at 6:00 instead of 7:00 like most other places. As with all things, there are pros and cons to this. One of the cons it that we have to eat dinner early because for little tummies and big migraines, waiting to have dinner after the concert is just too late. Daniel’s call time has usually been 5:45, so this really hasn’t been a huge deal. We usually eat around 5:30, so we generally only need to push dinner a little bit earlier. However, Nathan had his first choir concert tonight and his call time was 5:15 which meant I needed to have dinner ready by 4:30 so he could eat before he left (like me, he is prone to headaches when he doesn’t eat). Unfortunately, that is when Murphy made an appearance.
Murphy’s Law of Having Dinner Early states that when you have plans to eat dinner early, something catastrophic will inevitably prevent the early consumption of food. For example, just after you get the food in the pan and turn the stove on, you might cause a Corelle plate (and it has to be Corelle because glass or ceramic just doesn’t have the same explosive effect) to fall out of the cupboard in just the right way that it falls perpendicular to a similar plate sitting on the counter. When the very edge of the falling plate hits the center of the plate on the counter it will inevitably shatter. And because it is Corelle, it will send tiny shards of glass all over the kitchen covering the stove, the food that is cooking, the counters, the floor, under the fridge, and even send a few chunks onto the carpet in the living room. At that point, you would have to turn off the stove and throw out the food which is covered in microscopic bits of glass, clean out the stove, move everything off the surrounding counters so you can wipe up the glass, sweep the floor, shake off the kitchen rug, wipe all the counters and floors with a wet paper towel to pick up all the shards you can’t see, and vacuum the carpet as well. All of that would take about 40 minutes making an early dinner an impossibility.
Needless to say, poor Nathan did not get to eat dinner before his concert. Luckily, the concert was only half an hour so his dinner was not too late.
And Malia cried because I broke one of the “nice” plates.
Darn Murphy.
Our middle school holds concerts and other evening events at 6:00 instead of 7:00 like most other places. As with all things, there are pros and cons to this. One of the cons it that we have to eat dinner early because for little tummies and big migraines, waiting to have dinner after the concert is just too late. Daniel’s call time has usually been 5:45, so this really hasn’t been a huge deal. We usually eat around 5:30, so we generally only need to push dinner a little bit earlier. However, Nathan had his first choir concert tonight and his call time was 5:15 which meant I needed to have dinner ready by 4:30 so he could eat before he left (like me, he is prone to headaches when he doesn’t eat). Unfortunately, that is when Murphy made an appearance.
Murphy’s Law of Having Dinner Early states that when you have plans to eat dinner early, something catastrophic will inevitably prevent the early consumption of food. For example, just after you get the food in the pan and turn the stove on, you might cause a Corelle plate (and it has to be Corelle because glass or ceramic just doesn’t have the same explosive effect) to fall out of the cupboard in just the right way that it falls perpendicular to a similar plate sitting on the counter. When the very edge of the falling plate hits the center of the plate on the counter it will inevitably shatter. And because it is Corelle, it will send tiny shards of glass all over the kitchen covering the stove, the food that is cooking, the counters, the floor, under the fridge, and even send a few chunks onto the carpet in the living room. At that point, you would have to turn off the stove and throw out the food which is covered in microscopic bits of glass, clean out the stove, move everything off the surrounding counters so you can wipe up the glass, sweep the floor, shake off the kitchen rug, wipe all the counters and floors with a wet paper towel to pick up all the shards you can’t see, and vacuum the carpet as well. All of that would take about 40 minutes making an early dinner an impossibility.
Needless to say, poor Nathan did not get to eat dinner before his concert. Luckily, the concert was only half an hour so his dinner was not too late.
And Malia cried because I broke one of the “nice” plates.
Darn Murphy.
Monday, March 14, 2016
Monday, March 7, 2016
A Bug's Eye View
In the midst of our normal dinner conversation this evening, Malia suddenly declared, “Ants think we’re giants.” It was completely out of the blue and caught Kev and I off guard. Needless to say, we laughed.
A Little DIY
When we moved into our house, all the blinds were too long. They are faux wood blinds so they all had a stack of extra slats piled up on the windowsill. I intended to shorten them eventually, but figured I would have to take the blinds down and mess with the rollers and such at the top to do so and honestly, that seemed like a lot of work (and the blinds were super heavy due to all the extra slats) so I kept putting it off.
Unfortunately, having a big stack of extra slats meant that there was a gap in the blinds just above where the pile started and more unfortunately, the gap in the bedroom blinds was at just the exact wrong spot and a street light shone right through that little gap and right into my eyes when I faced that direction while trying to sleep at night. I ignored it for a good long while and then last week I had had enough. I went looking for instructions for shortening the blinds and when I discovered how ridiculously easy it is, I felt stupid for not doing it sooner.
Stupid or not, I’ve spent the past week taking the extra slats out of the blinds. It doesn’t take long, just 10-20 minutes depending on how wide the blinds are, so I snuck it in around my normal household tasks. Each set of blinds had anywhere from four to fourteen extra slats. I’ve finished all twelve sets now (minus the ones in the garage because those ones are guaranteed to be all spidery and I’m so not dealing with that) and the total count for slats removed is 93.
Getting this particular task done gave me a feeling of accomplishment. I did things like assemble my own furniture and simple repairs before I got married, but since then Kev has been around to do it so I haven’t needed to. But it’s nice to know that I can. :-)
Now we just have to figure out what to do with 93 extra slats.
Unfortunately, having a big stack of extra slats meant that there was a gap in the blinds just above where the pile started and more unfortunately, the gap in the bedroom blinds was at just the exact wrong spot and a street light shone right through that little gap and right into my eyes when I faced that direction while trying to sleep at night. I ignored it for a good long while and then last week I had had enough. I went looking for instructions for shortening the blinds and when I discovered how ridiculously easy it is, I felt stupid for not doing it sooner.
Stupid or not, I’ve spent the past week taking the extra slats out of the blinds. It doesn’t take long, just 10-20 minutes depending on how wide the blinds are, so I snuck it in around my normal household tasks. Each set of blinds had anywhere from four to fourteen extra slats. I’ve finished all twelve sets now (minus the ones in the garage because those ones are guaranteed to be all spidery and I’m so not dealing with that) and the total count for slats removed is 93.
Before
After
Extra
Getting this particular task done gave me a feeling of accomplishment. I did things like assemble my own furniture and simple repairs before I got married, but since then Kev has been around to do it so I haven’t needed to. But it’s nice to know that I can. :-)
Now we just have to figure out what to do with 93 extra slats.
Saturday, March 5, 2016
Ownership
This evening Nathan asked Malia if he could finish her Sprite left over from dinner. Her response? “It has my mouth print on it.”
I guess that’s a no.
As a girl who has three older brothers, she shares things pretty well except for food. She’s not dumb. And she’s already learned that some of her brothers will eat anything that isn’t nailed down.
I guess that’s a no.
As a girl who has three older brothers, she shares things pretty well except for food. She’s not dumb. And she’s already learned that some of her brothers will eat anything that isn’t nailed down.
Friday, March 4, 2016
The Girl Knows How to Accessorize
Our allergist has always recommended we get medical alert bracelets for our kids. It isn’t so important when they are with us, but when they are away from home and family it is wise to have some of that info on them in case something happens. We have always struggled to get Matthew to wear his wristbands, even though I let him pick them out. He would never wear it on his wrist, but we could usually keep it on him by putting it on his ankle. But then he grew and the wristbands would no longer fit his ankle. There was much of weeping and wailing and gnashing of teeth and over time, those wristbands had a tendency to disappear. After a while we would find them and the cycle would start again. But this last time, they did not reappear. Of the three we had, only one has been found and that one got worn once before disappearing again. I’m under absolutely no illusions that this is just a random event. One of Matthew’s classmates mentioned once that Matthew took the wristbands off as soon as he got to school. So I’m sure that the loss of those things was a somewhat intentional accident.
We have been limited in options for Matthew due not only to his unwillingness to wear a wristband, but by the fact that he is allergic to so many things that many options don’t have enough room to engrave his whole list of stuff. But I finally found a small engraved plaque big enough for all the words we need and designed to be laced onto a shoe. After some hard talking, Matthew was convinced to give it a try. When it arrived, Matthew was surprised by how small it is and didn’t fight about putting it on his shoe. Hopefully he won’taccidentally purposefully lose this one.
On the other hand, Malia is totally stoked about wearing the wristband and bracelets she picked out. (And yes, I realize I just revealed myself as a child of the ‘80’s by using the word “stoked.”) She picked one wristband and then we ordered a separate engraved plaque and she chose beads to make several interchangeable bracelets. The hardest part has been deciding which one to wear.
This is just another reminder that boys and girls are totally different. Cute accessories just don’t make the most important list for boys. :-)
We have been limited in options for Matthew due not only to his unwillingness to wear a wristband, but by the fact that he is allergic to so many things that many options don’t have enough room to engrave his whole list of stuff. But I finally found a small engraved plaque big enough for all the words we need and designed to be laced onto a shoe. After some hard talking, Matthew was convinced to give it a try. When it arrived, Matthew was surprised by how small it is and didn’t fight about putting it on his shoe. Hopefully he won’t
On the other hand, Malia is totally stoked about wearing the wristband and bracelets she picked out. (And yes, I realize I just revealed myself as a child of the ‘80’s by using the word “stoked.”) She picked one wristband and then we ordered a separate engraved plaque and she chose beads to make several interchangeable bracelets. The hardest part has been deciding which one to wear.
This is just another reminder that boys and girls are totally different. Cute accessories just don’t make the most important list for boys. :-)
Wednesday, March 2, 2016
Nostalgia
I’ve been working on getting blog books made for the first few years that I blogged and it has been a whirlwind of memories. The boys were so small then and Matthew was equal parts exasperating and hilarious. I’ve been laughing my head off as I remember some of the things he did. Nathan, my most willing proofreader, read about how he used to chase Matthew with the vacuum cleaner because he knew Matthew was scared of it and he told me he was ashamed. I laughed because honestly, it was even funny then and also because there is a big difference in the conscience of a 12 year old as opposed to a 5 year old. Nathan has grown up a lot. Daniel has grown up almost without me noticing it. He’s not even the socially awkward science nerd he was then. He has turned into a band geek instead and is surrounded by friends with like interests. High school registration is coming right up and he’s started thinking about driving (!!!!!). Where does the time go? And why does it have to go so quickly?
I’ve also been remembering the fabulous support network I had in the Murray ward. I had a lot of friends, any number of whom I could call up when I was having a craptastic day and say, “Hey, I need to complain.” Relief society activities were usually spent laughing and I always felt like I had emotional support when things got rough. And that was during a time when I really needed that support. I was mothering three small boys who kept me on my toes. Kev was working full time and going to school so he was gone a lot. He went through four different jobs while we lived in Murray which meant a lot of changes in schedules, insurance carriers, etc. It was during that time period when Matthew’s food allergies were first diagnosed and I was trying to figure out how to deal with that. Nathan’s lazy eye was discovered as well and we were dealing with patching, glasses, and eye appointments every 4-6 weeks. Really, I had a lot on my plate but I also had a lot of help as I dealt with it all.
That is something I’ve missed since I moved out here. I have a few friends, but the boundary changes four years ago put them in a different ward. The ward we’re in now has been great for Daniel and Matthew, and even Malia has a good group of little playmates that she loves, but I really don’t have any friends in this ward. It’s not that the ladies aren’t nice or anything like that, I just haven’t met anyone that I really click with, with whom I feel like I’m going to be great friends. I have a lot of acquaintances, but no one that I know can see me at my worst and like me anyway. At one of the last midweek Relief Society meetings I went to, we were working on a project and when it was time to let things dry, every lady at my table stood up and walked away to socialize with other people. It wasn’t one of those round tables either. It was two of the long church tables put together and I was sitting there all alone. And as I looked across the cultural hall, there was not one group of ladies that I felt like I could walk up to and join the conversation. I dislike going to ward activities for the same reason.
Even my online support system has dwindled drastically in the past few years. Blogging is not the new hot thing and everyone has moved to Facebook. I’m not a Facebook fan. It just seems like a huge time suck to me. And in actuality, very little of the things I’m seeing there actually have anything to do with people’s real lives. Most of it is just liking stuff, reposting news items, game invites, etc. I prefer the personal touch that blogging gives me and for those that still blog, I like actually hearing how their lives are going. And honestly, it fills my need to vent on occasion, lets me feel like I’m actually fulfilling my obligation to journal and create a family history, and the boys really love reading the blog books once they are printed.
It’s not that I don’t like it out here. I really do. I have loved living in this area. It is super family friendly and we love our schools. It is quiet and in general I feel like our neighborhood is very safe. I just feel lonely and isolated sometimes. So if any of you Murray ladies are even still reading, you are missed.
I’ve also been remembering the fabulous support network I had in the Murray ward. I had a lot of friends, any number of whom I could call up when I was having a craptastic day and say, “Hey, I need to complain.” Relief society activities were usually spent laughing and I always felt like I had emotional support when things got rough. And that was during a time when I really needed that support. I was mothering three small boys who kept me on my toes. Kev was working full time and going to school so he was gone a lot. He went through four different jobs while we lived in Murray which meant a lot of changes in schedules, insurance carriers, etc. It was during that time period when Matthew’s food allergies were first diagnosed and I was trying to figure out how to deal with that. Nathan’s lazy eye was discovered as well and we were dealing with patching, glasses, and eye appointments every 4-6 weeks. Really, I had a lot on my plate but I also had a lot of help as I dealt with it all.
That is something I’ve missed since I moved out here. I have a few friends, but the boundary changes four years ago put them in a different ward. The ward we’re in now has been great for Daniel and Matthew, and even Malia has a good group of little playmates that she loves, but I really don’t have any friends in this ward. It’s not that the ladies aren’t nice or anything like that, I just haven’t met anyone that I really click with, with whom I feel like I’m going to be great friends. I have a lot of acquaintances, but no one that I know can see me at my worst and like me anyway. At one of the last midweek Relief Society meetings I went to, we were working on a project and when it was time to let things dry, every lady at my table stood up and walked away to socialize with other people. It wasn’t one of those round tables either. It was two of the long church tables put together and I was sitting there all alone. And as I looked across the cultural hall, there was not one group of ladies that I felt like I could walk up to and join the conversation. I dislike going to ward activities for the same reason.
Even my online support system has dwindled drastically in the past few years. Blogging is not the new hot thing and everyone has moved to Facebook. I’m not a Facebook fan. It just seems like a huge time suck to me. And in actuality, very little of the things I’m seeing there actually have anything to do with people’s real lives. Most of it is just liking stuff, reposting news items, game invites, etc. I prefer the personal touch that blogging gives me and for those that still blog, I like actually hearing how their lives are going. And honestly, it fills my need to vent on occasion, lets me feel like I’m actually fulfilling my obligation to journal and create a family history, and the boys really love reading the blog books once they are printed.
It’s not that I don’t like it out here. I really do. I have loved living in this area. It is super family friendly and we love our schools. It is quiet and in general I feel like our neighborhood is very safe. I just feel lonely and isolated sometimes. So if any of you Murray ladies are even still reading, you are missed.
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