Self-Improving Quote of the Day

  • "Love is making space in your life for someone else."--Niell F. Marriott

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

Princess for a Week

It has been princess central around here for the past ten days. Malia has had a birthday and this year was the year we threw a princess party. In fact, we invited her friends to come to princess school so they could all learn to be royalty and earn their tiaras. We practiced waving a wand, dancing, making a bracelet, kissing a frog and defending ourselves (against a piรฑata). The girls wore their fancy gowns and they did, in fact, all earn their tiaras. Malia’s cake of choice was a super simple strawberry cupcake cake, but she was very pleased with how it turned out.




This month’s birthday table day at the elementary was on Malia’s actual birthday which made it even more exciting for her. School had not started for Nathan (though it had for everyone else), so he got to attend as well. We took her a lunch from Carl’s Jr. and even though she was totally hyped, she managed to eat up all her food.


After lunch, Nathan helped me pick out some balloons for her, and I think she was pleased with our selection:


Her presents from us were given that evening. She was happy about the princess Lego from Daniel and Nathan.

She was spazy about the tiara from Kevin and I.
(Yup, that’s my girl-equal parts girly girl, tom boy and spaz.)

The musical jewelry box from us was also entrancing.


But Matthew totally won the “who can choose the best present for Malia” award with his selection of a scooter of her very own.

This past Sunday was her cake day at my parents’ house. She opted for the blueberry cupcake cake for this one. She was also excited to be able to celebrate with her cousin Kate since Kate had been out of town for her princess party.




Even Jolly has had an opportunity to be royalty for a day.


I’ve about had my fill of princess stuff for now, but Malia has loved all of it. She’s such a perfect blend of interests that I’m happy to indulge her inner princess from time to time knowing that she’s going to alternate princess time with baseball time or football time or scooter time…she’s well rounded and a perfect fit for our crazy family.

Here is a translation of Malia’s birthday interview in case your reading of phonetic writing is rusty:

My nicknames are: Squeaker Pants
If I could change my name, it would be: Dot
When I grow up I want to be: a mom
My best friend is: Raylee
My favorite thing to do with my family is: Play games
This is what makes me happy: Playing house
This is what makes me sad: Falling
My favorite thing about school is: recess
The thing I’m best at is: the weed (??? When I asked Malia about this, she couldn’t even remember what it was supposed to mean. She decided her new answer was “to read” which is probably a better answer because I’m pretty sure child protective services would take her away if she was really doing weed. ๐Ÿ˜‰)
If I had a million dollars I would: cheer
If I could go anywhere, I would go: To Space
If I had one wish, I would wish for: I want to be anything
For breakfast, I like to eat: cereal
My favorite thing to do outside is: ride my scooter
My favorite thing to wear is: dresses
Before I fall asleep, I think about: is I read books
My favorite birthday present was: a singing bird

My Favorites
Food: spaghetti
Holiday: Christmas
Book: Another Monster at the End of This Book
Toy: doll
Treat: cookies
Song: I Am a Child of God
Animal: tiger
Movie: Narnia
Color: red
Sport: football
T.V. Show: Sophia

Monday, August 21, 2017

“Totality” Cool

As I’m sure you all know, today was a total solar eclipse that was visible across the entire United States. Kevin and the boys, my dad and my sister Rachael and her family drove north into the path of totality. I would have liked to go, but August heat=migraine for me and I knew I would end up feeling miserable so I stayed home with Malia. Malia had school, but I went and checked her out for awhile so she could experience the 93% eclipse we got here. We went to the park next to the elementary school and Malia alternated between playing on the playground and checking in to see how the eclipse was coming along. It was actually pretty disconcerting to know it was the middle of the day and yet have no cloud cover and nearly no light.




The men folk had a great time and took a million pictures to share when they got home. Kevin had a sun filter for his camera and took so many pictures that he actually ran completely out of battery power.




Sprinkled in with the pictures of heavenly bodies were a few of the earthly bodies.





  (Nathan always comments on how I put the dorky pictures of him on the blog, but honestly what choice do I have? These are not staged by me. He just gets his dork on pretty regularly. ๐Ÿ˜‰)

The boys were all completely awed by the marvelous show, and hopefully I’ll be around to see a repeat performance when it happens in our neck of the woods in 2045.

Friday, August 18, 2017

Who's the Leader?

Our elementary school uses the “Leader in Me” program to teach citizenship and character development. They teach seven habits (things like “put first things first” and “begin with the end in mind”) and each week they choose one child from each grade who has been living the seven habits as the Leader of the Week. Today Malia came home from school, showed me a bunch of prizes and said that during the announcements they announced her name for her birthday. However, Matthew said they announce birthdays every day and not just on Fridays so I was kind of confused but figured it wasn’t worth dwelling on. While we were eating dinner this evening, the assistant principal called to let us know that Malia had been chosen as the leader of the week for the whole first grade. She told us that Malia is such a cute girl and she is already showing leadership skills. Malia had her picture taken this morning and it will be posted on the leader wall which stays the same for the entire school year. Matthew said they announce the grade leaders each day and then we heard the following exchange:

Matthew: “I didn’t hear it. I didn’t know.”
Malia: “Me either!”

We laughed. She’s awesome. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Thursday, August 3, 2017

Proof That I Make My Young’uns Walk to School

 (They have also inherited my skin which is a huge blessing because they tan rather than burn.)

Wednesday, August 2, 2017

Artistic Endeavors

Nathan is one of those kids who gets super stir crazy if he doesn’t have something to do. He can only binge watch shows on Netflix for so long before he has to get up and do something else. Once his summer stage crew stint ended, he needed something to do so he decided to make a quilt. He learned the basics of sewing in his seventh grade CTE class and he actually enjoyed it. So he selected a simple pattern, dug through my scrap boxes and got to work. With some basic instructions from me and questions asked along the way, he completed the entire quilt on his own. He chose a pattern that made the quilt top on the bias and handled the extra stretchiness very well.


He quilted it freehand on the quilting machine and even snuck in a few words that describe him.


And then he took a very artful picture of the finished product. (He has become quite interested in photography as well.) The quilt looks great. He’s totally proud of himself, as well he should be.


And he didn’t even make a dent in my scrap stash so he’s welcome to dive in again whenever he wants.