Self-Improving Quote of the Day

  • "Love is making space in your life for someone else."--Niell F. Marriott

Saturday, October 25, 2014

There Are Still Good People in the World

Matthew wants to be a football player for Halloween. That is not a costume I was going to attempt to make, so we started asking around and have been able to borrow some padded pants and a jersey from one of my visiting teachers. All we lacked was a helmet. And you definitely can’t be a tackle football player without a helmet so we headed to our local Spirit Halloween store to see if we could find one. Matthew and I did a quick lap of the store and didn’t find anything, so we headed back to the front to ask an employee. I think the man we ended up asking was a manager because when he sadly had to tell us that he didn’t even get any football or cheerleader costumes in this year and Matthew was looking disappointed, he took us to the one thing he had that was close and then gave us a 50% discount because it wasn’t exactly what we wanted and would take a bit of work on our part. His philosophy is that he is there to make the kids happy…and he did. We took our purchase home and turned this…

…into this.

Needless to say, I said, “Thank you!” More than once in fact. And I’m pleased we were able to make it work so easily because I’m pretty sure they don’t allow beer in the second grade…

As for Matthew, he’s thrilled. He is wearing his helmet all the time and even making it into a functional accessory.

Friday, October 24, 2014

Indian Summer

It’s almost the end of October and we still have days where the temperature is nearly 80 degrees. Although I’m not a fan of the heat, the warm weather has made for some pleasant outings for Malia and me. I had an appointment with my neurologist on Wednesday which meant a trip to the zoo. This is the first time we’ve visited since the latest construction project was completed and Malia was super excited to ride the train and finally see the lions!


Today Malia had a field trip to the pumpkin patch. She has been looking forward to this field trip all month and has been giving me daily reminders about her “pumpkin trip.” Can I just tell you how much we love our little local pumpkin grower? There are other pumpkin patches in the area, but none of the others have this:


Or this:

Or this:

Malia had a great time and can hardly wait to go again with the whole family so she can choose another pumpkin!


Thursday, October 9, 2014

This is How Awesome Our Preschool Is...

They celebrated International Talk Like a Pirate Day. Yes, I know it was actually last month, but still, eight three-year-olds saying, "Arrrrrgh!" is pretty entertaining. :-)


Sunday, October 5, 2014

The Fine Art of Manipulation

While I was getting dressed this morning, I overheard the following conversation:

Matthew: “I’m not getting it for you!”
Malia: [whining]
Matthew: “I’m not your slave!”
Malia: “Yes you are!”
Matthew: “I’m not your slave!”
Malia: “Yes you are!”
Matthew: “Fine, I’ll get it but I’m not your slave!”
Malia: [laughing]

It would appear that Malia has discovered that she has her brothers wrapped around her finger and is fully prepared to take advantage of that fact. I can hardly wait to see what she does to all the boys when she hits high school…(FYI: that last bit was to be read with sarcasm)

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

The Good, the Bad and the Ugly

Today was Matthew’s annual visit to the allergist. You might think that once allergies are established that nothing is going to change but that is not so, hence the yearly visit. New this year was a blood test that tests an individual’s allergic response to separate proteins in an item rather than just the allergic response to an item as a whole. Appropriately, this is called component testing. This kind of test is relatively new, just a year or so old. The benefit is that there are certain proteins within the peanut (or whatever else) that are more likely to cause severe allergic reactions while others are less likely to cause real problems. So a person who is allergic to the milder reacting proteins is more likely to be able to eat a certain food without real problems. This year his allergist opted to do peanut component testing just to see if there was any chance that he was allergic to the nicer proteins.

There was good news and bad news as far as Matthew’s blood work goes. First the bad. The peanut component test tests five different proteins: the first three are the bad ones that pretty much cause anaphylaxis and the last two are better proteins that don’t cause as much trouble. Not surprisingly, Matthew is highly allergic to the first three proteins and only very mildly allergic to the last two. So no to ever getting away from the peanut allergy.

Now the good. Matthew’s results for milk actually went down which is a first for him. His doctor was encouraged by that so she decided to do skin prick testing for both whole milk and casein (one of the proteins in milk). He still had a pretty bad reaction to whole milk but his reaction to casein was very mild. What that means is that he may be able to tolerate small amounts of milk in baked goods such as bread and crackers. He is still far too allergic to have plain milk or even milk in things like soup, but there is potential for a purchased hamburger bun or some such. So we are planning on doing a food challenge for milk in baked goods sometime in December. When I talked to Matthew about it he was completely on board with the whole idea. Being able to eat almonds after his food challenge last year has brought a bunch of new food into his diet and it has been a great thing for him. In fact, when we can find ones that don’t have peanut cross contamination warnings, Matthew really likes roasted and salted almonds. So fingers crossed for the milk test. We also have a food challenge to coconut milk in the future. I’m not sure when, but adding coconut milk to his diet would give us a substitute to whipped cream, something I have not been able to find.

And the ugly. There really isn’t an ugly except for the fact that we are dealing with the whole food allergy thing at all. And we’ve been doing it for so long that is has just become an everyday kind of thing for us. But it was a catchy title and I couldn’t resist. :-)

Other than that, things were pretty much the same. He is still highly allergic to eggs and peas and he also tested positive for allergies to cashews and new this year, pistachios. Every year we explore a few different nuts so cashew has been on his list for a while. This is the first time we have tested for pistachio so that one is new although I’m never surprised when a new nut gets added to the list.

So the allergy saga continues…it’s one of those stories that will be a lifelong one for Matthew.

Monday, September 29, 2014

It Was Raining Pretty Hard

Nathan and Matthew have been fighting a lot lately and by a lot I mean that they are either fighting or sleeping. So when I left to go visiting teaching this afternoon, I was hoping I had the same number of children when I got home. When I returned, not only had they not killed each other, but Nathan, Matthew and Malia had been working together on a project. They had gathered up all of their stuffed animals, of which there are a plethora, and had made themselves a zoo called “The Ark.”

Every good business needs a sign letting people know whether the business is open or closed...

...and an arrow letting you know where to go. Only the really great ones give you money to buy your ticket.

The ticket booth complete with information board and a Saran Wrap window.
 
One of the ticket booth employees.
 
The Ark staff welcomes you to the zoo.

The vast assortment of animals inside The Ark.

As for the name of their zoo, I think it is pretty ironic. While the heavy rains haven’t caused us any problems, there is flooding in other parts of our community.

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

I'm Officially a Drama Mama

Nathan just finished his first show ever. Our community does a children's show every year which is a perfect opportunity for a first timer. After the show on opening night, he came home with a huge grin on his face. I have a feeling that he's turned into a performance adrenaline junkie and I'm okay with that, partly because that was always my natural high of choice and partly because he has found his bliss.

In the past year Nathan has discovered what he really enjoys and he has also realized that doing things that are totally different than the things Daniel does is more than okay, it's great. Just as an example, last week I registered Daniel and Nathan for a merit badge pow wow. Daniel wanted to do astronomy, geology and geocaching. Nathan wanted to do music, oceanography, and theater. They both wanted to do movie making, but I have a feeling Daniel would rather be behind the camera while Nathan would prefer to be in front of it.

Nathan had so much fun. He came home from rehearsals super happy. He did get stressed out as opening night approached, but being anxious about opening night is normal even for veterans of the stage. Here are some pics of Nathan having a great time.












Thanks to all our family that came out to support him. It made the whole adventure even more wonderful for Nathan. I expect there will be many more performances in his future, so stay tuned...

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Apparently She Believes in Reincarnation…

We have a zoo membership this year and as such they send us magazines and things in the mail on occasion. At the end of last year we got a calendar and Malia found it this evening. Monkeys and elephants are her favorite animals so she was pretty excited when she found a picture of the baby elephant and the mommy elephant. She came to show the picture to me and then informed me, “I ate grass when I was an elephant. And had a big, big, long nose when I was an elephant.” She was totally serious. And it made me giggle. :-)

I realize that my blog is really Malia-centric right now. It’s not that my other kids aren’t awesome, because they totally are, but Malia is just at that age when she is really funny. Matthew also had a funny phase. When he was a toddler my blog was a riot and only 2% of that was because I’m amazing witty and completely charming. The other 98% was just because Matthew was freakin’ hilarious. I kid you not. If you don’t remember, take a gander at the 2009-2010-ish era. Sometimes I go back when I need a serious laugh. It works like a charm.