Self-Improving Quote of the Day

  • "Love is making space in your life for someone else."--Niell F. Marriott

Sunday, July 27, 2014

Crazy About Her Cousin

When Malia was younger, she was pretty shy around people she didn’t know. She was really standoffish with my family for quite a while. I think that she got overwhelmed by the crowd of folks that she didn’t know all that well. We live just far enough away that unless we make special plans, we usually only see everyone a couple of times a month. And there are a lot of us so that can be daunting for even adults who don’t know us well.

About six months ago she suddenly outgrew that tendency. And in that time, she has decided that her cousin Kate (who is only a couple of months older than she is) is just about the best person ever. She tells me all the time that Kate is her friend and she needs to go to Kate’s house. If we show up at my parents’ house and Kate isn’t there, Malia is always disappointed and asks where she is. These two have become friends and I’m really glad. Malia doesn’t have any sisters and doesn’t get much girl time, so girl cousins are great!

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