Instead of our typical Family Home Evening, last night we had a Finger Hurting Event. Instead of a song and a prayer, we heard a bang and a yell. Our lesson was replaced by some basic first aid. And the activity was a trip to the instacare. However, we did still have our refreshments.
At about 7 o’clock last night, Matthew slammed Nathan’s right ring finger in the bathroom door. Door slamming and the subsequent finger smashing are one of those topics that are included in the “broken record lectures.” You know the ones I mean: the topics you have broached so often with your children that they kind of just zone out due to the repetitious nature of the conversation. Anyway, our lecture focuses on 1) not slamming doors (which never seems to sink in) and 2) no matter what the circumstances, never ever put your fingers where a door will close. Obviously both points could use some revisiting.
The story that Nathan and Matthew give us is that Matthew didn’t know Nathan’s fingers were in the door and Nathan didn’t know that Matthew was going to close the door. Not much of a story, but that seems to be pretty common where finger smashing events are involved. While he could straighten out most of his finger, Nathan could not lift the portion from the first knuckle to the tip. It just stayed bent down which is rather disconcerting considering how difficult that is to do with an uninjured finger. Nathan was nearly hyperventilating (Kev thinks he may have been in mild shock) and Matthew was scared half to death when Nathan and Kevin got in the car to go to the doctor. In spite of the fact that they fight like cats and dogs, Matthew really loves his brother and he was devastated to think that he had hurt him.
Three and a half hours later, Kev and Nathan finally got home. While there appear to be no broken bones, the doctor had some concern that surgery will be needed to repair a displaced tendon. He said there is a certain kind of break that lets the tendon slip from where it should be so that the tip of the finger stays bent down the way Nathan’s is. We will get everything checked out again tomorrow or Thursday at which point the swelling should have gone down enough to be able to determine whether or not Nathan needs to be seen by an orthopedic surgeon.
Moral of the story (although it is fairly self explanatory): Don’t slam doors and no matter what the circumstances, never ever put your fingers where a door will close! Sound familiar?